Please don't say online because I don't like online dating.
Most Helpful Guy
perhaps the problem is your not putting any effort into finding a guy, come on your a 41 year old female getting a guy isn't that difficult, were not going to jump out of a bush and say here we are, you probably wouldn't even notice. so, why haven't you found a guy sooner? why all of a sudden your interest? perhaps youve just lost out in the game cause you waited too long, "waiting" there's the real problem which girls tend to do (and because girls lack or have no interest in guys in the first place) then they turn around an end up like your situation.
so my advice is you have to approach someone (whos alone) and dont keep expecting the guys to do everything cause it doesn't ever work that way.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think your choice is online. Or through mutual friends. Or bars.0