i really wanna let out how i want my future love to treat me. i dont agree with today's bullshit sexting and everything always leads up to sex. i just want a guy to look at me dreamily and tell me how much he loves my smile and my little quirks. and to tell me that i dont have to change anything that im beautiful. i know this may sound self centered but i dont want a guy just to always want to screw me. i understand that sex is a way to get closer but it shouldn't be tje only thing couples think about. i hope other girls agree with me. just wanted to let it out haha thanks x
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah like what others have said, he's out there for you. With so many leaves in the way, it'll be hard to find a flower that's in the same field you're standing in.
A good way to find the one is to be sociable. Be friendly, courteous to others, and learn to enjoy small talk with people. You'll soon find out that you're noticing patterns in certain individuals. The more people you connect with, the more patterns you'll see in people. These patterns are what you like in a guy, and finding what you're looking for in one too. By noticing patterns in certain individuals you'll naturally become more and more interested in them which can escalate into something bigger if you both want it to. Think about it as pulling weeds from your garden. By being naturally social, you'll talk to more people, find the ones you like, the ones you click with, the ones you don't like, ones who you think you'll be good friends with, etc2
Most Helpful Girl
well... today's society tells you to screw yourself over and call it "Freedom"
and tells women specifically to degrade themselves and call it "empowerment"
and tells men to compete on who is the worst father and partner and rap about it and call guys who are actually gentlemen "gay"
so yea... stick to your values and dont follow the hype or any of these trends...
there is a guy out there also feeling trapped in today's world and wondering if a girl like you exists who doesn't believe in any of today's mess1