If you do not smoke and are willing to date one, what are some strategies to make them quit (which I am aware is usually a delicate situation, but you have to admit that cigarettes are so bad for you)?
I know plenty of gfs who successfully made their bfs quit or at least try and cut down. Its just the usual wailing and other baby stuff (lol) like saying please stahp! For miiii... Its just the tought that counts. Just having someone that loves you and doesn't eant to see you hurt can do it for many men. Not me though. I. Had to quit myself.
My first two bfs were smokers. The first started smoking in the relationship, I met the 2nd as a smoker. I will say that now I won't date a guy who smokes. I never smoked a thing in my life, as I did not want to put myself at risk. After a while your boyfriend gets comfortable and may ask to smoke around you, even if he doesn't I just despise the smokers breath and the scent on his clothes. So No.
It'd be difficult that's for sure! One, everytime we kiss you'd get that disgusting taste of cigarettes in my mouth, even if you had a breath mint, you wouldn't be able to disguise the taste. Two, it's hard to respect someone that doesn't respect themselves, specifically their body. Yes I know it's your body, your choice blah blah blah, but really, you're killing yourself. Why would I waste my time with you...
No, smoking is one of those habits that turns me off completely with women
i'm a non smoker and currently dating a smoker. i don't really have a problem with it at all because he is very considerate about it, like he doesn't smoke around me if he can avoid it and makes sure smoke never goes in my face.
but obviously i'd rather he stop because it's better for his health
I'm a non-smoker and my boyfriend smokes. I don't try to make him quit or anything because I know it's up to him if he wants to stop or not. He'll quit if or when he wants to. He rarely smokes around me so it's not an issue or anything.
I don't smoke and I have dated a smoker, did not enjoy it. Would not do again. He always used this cologne I LOVED but I could always smell the cigarettes and weed underneath, and his mouth always tasted gross.
I just couldn't... Sure some guys look hot or cool smoking but I can't deal. Anytime I'm besides someone smoking I have to hold my breath I just hate that smell. Also who wants to that bad taste in their mouth or get cancer?
yes they are bad for you, but i tried to get my mom to quit smoking and drinking alcohol. it did not work. you cannot help someone to quit an addiction. they can only help themselves. i had to revisit this lesson just recently when i found out my roommate has a gambling problem.