why did my husband say do you really love me, and when I said yes, I feel you don't, and then say he had been seeing a woman for a few weeks and slept with her, if he told me is that like he doesn't want to cheat anymore, and wants to work things out, realises how much it would hurt me, and loves me?
Forgot to mention we have been married for 12 years, and he found out I had kept in touch with a guy from holiday, but it was nothing more than friendship, he saw my friend had wrote I had feelings for the guy, but when I said that I mean't like when you care about someone, nothing more!!
I noticed he has look at her profile since, should I be worried, or is it just curiousity?
You didn't ask him all of this when he told you he cheated on you? Ask him, it sounds like you have a LOT of talking and figuring things out ahead of you. It sound like he wanted to come clean but wanted to blame it on you first, or give you the reason why he did it, which he feels no love from you. But, he is your husband who cheated, you need to talk to him.