Are guys still interested and attracted to girls who dress modestly? By modestly, I mean NOT wearing shorts that barely cover your beehind, not wearing low-cut tops, and basically, not advertising your body. I dress in t-shirts, tanks, and shorts, but I always make sure I do not reveal too much.
Do guys find girls who dress this way still attractive, even if they are pretty? Even though Im 16, I feel like guys will not be so interested in me just because I try to dress decently! It seems like in order to get a guy, you have to be half undressed! No way Im doing that! I dont dress like obsessively modestly, not like those people who wear skirts all the time, but I still dress decent.
Guys? What's going on in your head? Lol! Please tell me your opinion! :) :)
First thing is that it is a long time since I was 16 but I don't recall how a girl dressed being a big issue. Yes a certain style may get you noticed but a girl's persona was mostly the determining aspect that would have attracted me. By the time I got to know someone, what she wears would be totally irrelevant to how I feel about her apart from the usual things you appraise in acquaintances' attire. I think what I am saying is that I try not to judge what a person maybe like from their clothes as in life some of the people I have met have been totally different to their initial image I presumed when I saw them. My initial reaction is keep dressing in a way that makes you comfortable and happy more than likely you will meet guys who appreciate that look over time and they will be closer to your own personality.
Id ONLY date a girl like that. The other thing is for attention, and I've learnt that chicks like that will continue wanting attention from more than one man, even if they have a boyfriend. Even if a girl like that is loyal, i wouldn't like her being dreased like that showing off her body all the time. Nah i like my woman classy. Attention hos ill maybe consider for a hookup if i get to a point where im THAT desperate, but i doubt ill ever do that.
Honestly dressing modestly is better cause it shows that you won't resort to showing off more of your body than you should, just to "attract" yourself more guys (Which is what most girls would think, and like you were implying) But of course we can find girls who dress modestly attractive, but we guys have to at least like the/your face too. You have nothing to worry about, and this is coming from a guy who's only a year younger or so haha :)