Self-esteem isn’t an essential need like food or water, but it’s a supplement that can either dramatically improve your life, or keep you stunted and unfulfilled. The fact is, you can only let in as much love from the outside as you feel on the inside.
If you don’t feel good about yourself, you will never truly believe that someone else can love you and you will constantly be on the lookout for the other shoe to drop, for the guy you care about to leave, thus validating the fact that you are unworthy of love.
Poor self-worth is what traps us in bad relationships, what sabotages new relationships, and what causes us to feel so devastated and broken when a relationship ends.
Self-esteem doesn’t come from blowing kisses to your reflection in the mirror or repeating ''I love myself'' over and over. It takes time and it takes work and it isn’t always easy.
Everyone’s path will be different, but no matter what, having a picture of what high self-esteem looks like, and how it can play out in relationships, is helpful and can help reveal the areas you may need to work on.
Having high self-esteem doesn’t guarantee a happy relationship, but it does equip you with the skills to identify what you want and realize you deserve to get it, and the strength to walk away if something falls short.
Well you CAN get a girl without having confidence, it's jsut less likely.
Yes, just believe everything will go alright and it will. if it doesn't, then dont give up hope.
Confidence in dating means being sure of yourself and everything going on. Approaching the other person and asking them out, if you're shy or not, is more confident than just sitting on the sidelines waiting for them to notice you.
Yes, trust in yourself is a good way to describe it. One of my favorite movies which I watched again last night is Crazy Stupid Love it stars a character who has it (Ryan Gosling) helping to teach an older guy who doesn't (Steve Carrell). You should watch that movie.
Attractiveness and confidence with the caveat that different people find different qualities attractive or confident. So that means you just have to do you and hope to find somebody that finds your qualities attractive and confident. And the more people you approach, the more you improve your chances of finding somebody like that.