I am looking for some advice. I have a feeling a breakup is coming my way, in the near future. I want to know how to react and what to say to her when she breaks it off me. I do want her to come back to me. I am also going to tell her I am not interested in her freindship. Any advice would be good thanks all! I appreciate it.
Ok I need to clarify a little. I am not going to beg or plea with her to stay- I understand once a woman's mind is made up it won't change right away. I want her to come back eventually. What should I say to put the seed of doubt in her mind to think she messed up when she let me go. Hopefully that makes more sense.
Thank you everyone, but dragons tears it was helpful. I am going to keep this breakup "classy", I am a gentleman and I will stay that way. I can't help her, if she won't talk to me about what's bothering her. So she's kept these emotions bottled up and instead of dealing with them she is removing "me" the source of her aniexty to solve her problem. This is why the break up is coming and why I am preparing.
You need to figure out what the reason for the break up is. If she's made up her mind to break up with you, then there's nothing you can really say to change that, unless there is a specific reason she is breaking up with you and you are able to change/fix that.
Dont curse her out, listen to what she has to say, dont bring up past memories. But if she wants to break up there is no way she'll come back again (well she might but there's a reason WHY she's dumping you). Try not to be clingy or needy. But breakups are inevitable - good luck...