Okay Yess, I was snooping, but he has done it with me before too because he said it helps To know things and not wonder about it or whatever. So I did it because I've been getting bad feelings lately. And I happened to click on snapchat in the contacts and saw he has his ex as a friend? ( one that he's cheated on me with once like a long time ago) should I confront him about it? It's really bothering me because I know I always take extra precautions when it comes to my exes and other guys who may try to talk to me and I make sure I don't speak to them or anything out of respect to my so. But he's been chatting with other girls about who knows what (sending snaps) so I can't see what it is and who knows if he snapped with his ex an deleted it? I'm about to lose my mind..
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If it bothers you, than yes, you should confront him about it. However, when you do you want to make sure you guys are talking about it and not fighting, insulting, or blaming each other. Remember, it's something that bothers you, and yes, that should be important to him. Though, that's not the same thing as him doing something wrong. So instead of talking about what he did wrong or what he shouldn't be doing talk about how it makes you feel. Listen to what he has to say, don't just hear it, but listen. And, if course you want the same from him, for him to listen to you, so try asking questions just to make sure he's understanding what you're saying. Speak clearly and say what you're really feeling, if you're not transparent with him he's not going to understand what you. And most important, be willing to compromise. He should respect your feelings and wishes, but you should respect his too, and, unfortunately, that may mean you guys might not agree. Good luck, and remember be a peacemaker, not a peacebreaker or peacefaker.0