Husband Told me he Cheated Why? why did my husband say do you really love me, and when I said yes, I feel you don't, and then say he had been seeing a woman for a few weeks and slept with her, if he told me is that like he doesn't want to cheat anymore, and wants to work things out, realises how much it would hurt me, and loves me. We have been married for 12 years, and he found out I had kept in touch with a guy from holiday, but it was nothing more than friendship, he saw my friend had wrote I had feelings for the guy, but when I said that I mean't like when you care about someone, nothing more I noticed he has been looking at her profile since quite a few times, and daily, should I be worried, or is it just curiousity?
Most Helpful Guy
Your husband had every right to be suspicious and even angry. Frankly I would not buy your story either about what your 'feelings' meant because I am no fool. However, two wrongs do not make a right so it was NOT okay for him to resort to cheating. That was immature and selfish.0
Most Helpful Girl
Hmmm, do you want to work on it?
Your marriage is in trouble because your husband couldn't communicate with you. He thought you might have something with another guy, so... he cheats with a woman for a few weeks.
Honey... you aren't perfect, but damn, he's acting like a mute, angry, child. And it's a little late for him to want to think about your feelings and think things out.0
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