Been seeing him almost a year now and he won't make it official cuz he says he's not ready yet. He isn't ready apparently to give me full commitment and the emotional aspects of it. I've said i love you to him but he doesn't say it back cuz he doesn't know what love means and he can't tell me how he feels about me. He says he cares yet everytime I mention that I want him to make it official he won't. I've been patient for what seems like forever and I know he has to make some decisions about his life right now, plus the fact that he's a damaged individual but i feel like if he really cares about me he will make this happen. What should I do?
How can I get this guy to call me his girlfriend and make it a committed relationship?
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Your problem is that you have been fooling around with him for a year. If you had set out to only have commitment from the very start then he would have respected your stance.
At the moment, you have demonstrated that you do not stick to what you want (shows lack of willpower and boundaries). There is no reason for him to commit, especially after a year of not doing so.
''Emotional aspects of it'' that sounds like a big headache, again, what does that bring to his life? Sounds like you are offering him more expense, drama (emotional aspects) and less freedom. Sign me up... said no one.0
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