So I'm super abscess about him, he chased me but I fall into love with him too fast after that... We did everything and he now says he never liked me and I should stop contacting him... because literally, I texted him every single day and he is very annoyed as he said.
The thing is, he always just block me in the past when he feels I am getting too emotional about us (twice), but he always unblock me or find a way to establish contact again... I told myself and him few time already that I will stop contact him but I almost never keep my words.
Now he doesn't block me anymore, he just texts me back and says" stop texting me" or "Its too much pressure" etc... He told me that I should respect his wish... Because after all this he doesn't even have physical attraction towards to me anymore... and I felt really bad this time so I said okay, I will respect ur wish because I want to try for your love. And he replied " good, let's see how long this lasts" ...
it has been 4 days now, we didn't talk... I know he problerly doesn't into me that much, what should I do so then I can win him over? He was a very nice guy at the beginning, I wanted relationship immediately and he got bit turned off. Coz the way he talks just making me feel he doesn't want me to disappear either...
Most Helpful Guy
If it were a guy posting this he would be hounded for being creepy. But it's sweet and cute because it's a girl. Double standards in dating are awful. With that said, this situation sounds horrible for any guy or girl to go through so I wish you all the best.0
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He said "let's see how long this lasts" because he knows your pattern, that is you say you won't talk but then you give in and talk. You ask how can you win him over--the best way to try is by sticking to your word and REALLY do not text him or come in contact with him at all. IF he cares at all about keeping you in his life, he will talk to you after a while--I don't know how long, maybe a few days, weeks or even months. If he does not talk to you, you have your answer and you need to move on. But right now it is clear he needs space. I have known someone who would randomly choose to ignore me or he thought I was clingy or texted too much. When I stopped talking to him, every single time he would come back in contact with me after exactly THREE days. Yes I had my pattern, and he had his too. When you stop trying to talk to him, you will find that (if he cares at all) he will start to wonder where you went and will begin chasing again. If he doesn't want you in his life, you will not hear from him. I know this is very hard because you fell deeply in love with him. My suggestion is that you have to delete his number so you are not tempted. I wish you the best! :*2