I started dating a guy a month ago. He is the one who made the first move and we spent all of our time together. He presented me to his friends, told his mother about me, I thought it was great, I got really attached to him. He was very king and affectionate with me.
But yesterday, he told me he was still recovering from his past relationship. He dated a girl for 3 years and it ended up very badly, he was in a very bad place. He told me it had an impact on his grades, his social life and that he wasn't ready to do that again, especially since he is in a law school.
He broke up with me.
He insisted on the fact that it had nothing to do with me, and I know it doesn't, but I'm frustrated, I know it can be great and I'm independant as well and need my own space, so I know we are a good match.
I don't know what to do but I need some advices to make it work, or at least to try.
Most Helpful Guy
respect his decision and move on.. that's what you can do.
Most Helpful Girl
It's Not going to work, Sad to say, @leahn95... He Is still recovering from his past relationship.
He is being his own Honest John here, dear, in being Frank with you about having Skeletons in his No Closure Closet that still rattle his brain. He cannot have a Real Relationship at this time because he has not moved on from the Past that may or may not have been such a Blast.
He didn't want to Hurt you Anymore by Continuing down a Pathetic Path in which he knew would leave you floating around in thin air with his Ghost from Yesterday and knew as Well... he could not promise Tomorrow with his own Sad Sorrow.
Move on. If he Tries to Contact you with some Reconsider, You 'Reconsider' going back with him to a What will only End up to be a "Full Circle Problem Pattern with him and With... Her.
Good luck. xx1