How can you tell if a guy really likes you and isn't trying to get in your pants?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • you can´t. for guys physical attraction and the desire to have sex are indistinguishable from "really loving" a girl sometimes. just have sex if you want or don´t if you don´t want. making it depend on him wanting more thatn that or not in the long run will bring you no benefit. there´s a good chance, that he´s not gonna be the one you marry anyway.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • If he actively wants to be a part of your life and vice versa

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What Guys Said 6

  • If he is really trying to get to know you. At your age you can't have sex anyways so if you like a guy and he likes you but your not sure if he is just trying to get into your pants mention that you have to wait at least until your 18. If he sticks around then he wants to know/date you for you. If he leaves then he just wanted into your pants.

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  • The guy does all sorts of nice stuff and is respectful of your space.

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  • Part of your problem is--if we really like you we will try to have sex.

    But really... time. A guy who invests time is a better indicator he's not just trying to have sex.

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  • If a guy likes u he's trying to get in your pants, regardless

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  • Spends a lot of time consistently talking with you, wanting to get to knew you, etc

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  • Sorry hun, You can't... Guys don't "like" girls except for their genitals. We tolerate you as long as it takes to get that part but generally women are not tolerable. You create rules we can not live by and punish us mentally and physically when we don't adhere to your standards of how we should act. You give us shit tests, you are over protective and jealous, we can't be ourselves around you, we are expected to stop being males and start thinking the way females do, which is impossible but you expect it anyways and then shame us when we are unable to live up to it.

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    • Someone has had bad luck with women

    • No not necessarily. I have just lived long enough to see and understand them.
      Women are different in many ways but in a lot of other ways they are all exactly the same.
      The things I mentioned above... shit tests, controlling, expecting men to change to suit them, etc. These are all very commonly known and often times mocked in the media in jest because they are common with all women.
      Yes there are some males who will give in for a while because they want "someone"... but as the saying goes... no matter how hot she is, some guy is tired of putting up with her shit.
      If we want companionship, want to act like ourselves without judgement, etc... we have our buddies or a dog.
      Aside from sex... there isn't a whole lot to offer that these things can't.

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