How do you break out of the bitterness cycle?

Ok, so there is a lot of bitterness here among guys. Like a guy gets rejected multiple times and becomes a sad bitter, woman hater, however you want to phrase it and this makes him even more prone to rejection and he just keeps digging himself into a deeper and deeper whole.

But what would you say is a good way to avoid this evil cycle, because we can all agree that its a strain on anyone gettting rejected over and over, how does one keep their composure?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Find ways to better yourself instead of putting the blame on an entire gender.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • You keep composure by seeking validation from yourself as opposed to other people or women. You improve your mind, body and soul for yourself. Learn each day, inspire others each day and train your body each day. Find what your purpose is for being here and soon, the importance of women becomes background noise.

    It also helps to go beyond the fantasy of women, go beyond the image of sugar and spice and see that they are just human beings, never to be placed on a pedestal.

    Be warned, you will probably find that you cannot love the reality and that you were only in love with a fantasy, a projection of what you desired.

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What Guys Said 2

  • They need to get laid but they are far too stuck in their ways. Most of them want to change but don't want to actually do anything about. It would make sense to listen to the guys who are actually getting laid but apparently we are all douchebags and they don't want to treat women like that. Blows my mind every time. I think they just post bitter questions to garner a little sympathetic conversation so they can feel better about their situation for a couple minutes.

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  • Let "no" be "no". Don't make it more than it is.

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