I've been talking to him at the gym for maybe 3 weeks (I only see him 3-4 days a week and speak to him maybe once or twice a week depending on if his busy or I'm busy working out). I finally got his facebook and he told me his rarely on it as he works throughout the whole day plus he studies and then afterwards he goes to the gym. We actually have a lot more in common than I thought, we both love travelling, we love what were doing (in regards to studies and work) and we both love the same type of music. However there have been several other girls that approach him and talk to him too and I'm starting to get paranoid, usually if I'm pursuing a guy and his talking to another girl I give up, but I don't want to this time!
In the past he has literally placed himself where I would walk past him and talk to him only because his too shy to approach me; yesterday he might of done the same because he never does cardio, only weights.
I just don't know how to compete for this guy when his never on facebook and he doesn't message at all; I only speak to him once or twice a week because we both want to work out, but I don't want to bug him at the gym either.
What do I do? I've never done this before! I'm prepared to fight though! :P
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why don't you just step outside your comfort zone for one time in your life and tell him you like him.
you can talk about it all you want, and plan as much as you like... but nothing is going to happen unless you're pro active...
waiting on the day he comes to the gym w/ a sign around his neck stating "YOU CAN ASK ME OUT NOW, I'LL SAY YES" is never going to happen.
just do it1
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