Me and my boyfriend just broke up and prom is in 2 weeks. He was my date and I honestly don't think I can find another day by then. I don't really want to go anymore either because I had reserved that night for me and him. My best friend [girl] wants to go with me as best friends but I don't know if I should. If I see my [ex]boyfriend there with another girl it will ruin my night, and even if he doesn't go, just being there will probably be sad all together. I'm a junior so I can still go next year but I don't know what to do.
Should I still go and try to have a good time or should I just do something else that night so I won't think about it? What would you do :]?
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I think you should go, you shouldn't confine yourself to doing things alone or privately because you don't want to think about him or run into him. If you care about him, seeing him with another girl is going to hurt a lot, but if he sees you out and having fun he might just second guess any thing that happened with your break up. The best thing to do, though it may be hard is to go out and have fun, the sooner you get out and live your life while having fun doing so- the easier it will be for you to move past your relationship and either find someone new, enjoy the single life, or maybe work things out down the road.
Hope this helps. :)0