He's 28, I'm 26, and she is 21. We just met a few days ago and I really like the guy a lot, he's got similar vibes to me. I was stalking his stuff online, hoping to see who else he could be seeing since he told me he was and doesn't know where things will go, but they just started going on dates too. Basically we were just really open if we were seeing others. This girl, I found her and know it's her, and she is stunning. I mean there is pretty and then there is gorgeous.. And she is just gorgeous. Honestly she looks out of his league, and I almost feel like giving up. Why would he take me out if he's with this girl? She also has an awesome vibe to her, can't really hate on her. She seems smart and nice too based on what I read on her profile. I look more in his league and we both are tatted up quite a bit unlike her, but I don't know I'm hoping I'm more fun or something... Can I win this? Are looks everything? Or persuade guys more?
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Most Helpful Guy
You'll always have some competition for attractive guys with options, So compete!!! Good luck1
Most Helpful Girl
Looks rarely mean anything once you get to know someone. I don't consider myself GORGEOUS but I am attractive and have never had a problem attracting a man, however there are many women out there that are more attractive than I am, and a lot of these women my boyfriend knows or is friends with and he has told me many times in casual conversations that he'd much rather be with someone he has fun with and is compatible with long term then someone who is absolutely gorgeous. Him and I are like best friends, we have sooo much fun together all the time, and I'm never worriers that he is going to leave me for someone more beautiful because I know we have the best connection. So unless this girl has an unreal personality with 100% confidence and a particularly good sense of humor on top of her looks, I'd say it's a fair fight. Don't make this all about him though, if he's seeing other people then you should too. Be confident and aloof, an average person with self confidence is instantly more attractive than a beautiful person with no confidence.0