How far is too far?

I know such a cliche question but in a Christians view, how far is too far? PLEASE BE SPECIFIC!!


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Too far for what?

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    • To go with a guy sexually

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    • And would that stuff be allowed since it is not sex?

    • im not gonna draw you a map hon, you should find that on your own.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It doesn't make any sense to rev up the engine until you're ready to drive the car somewhere. The bible directly condemns sex before marriage, a fact that many churches seem to glaze over, but a fact nonetheless. Until you're ready to get married, it doesn't make sense to pair off with a guy right now. No affection or kissing or being alone with a guy. All of that is just stepping stones to the act thats only meant to be for married couples.

    That make sound impractical or too strict, but you're only going to frustrate yourself and the guy if you do things that stop just short of sex. Don't put yourself in situations where you're going to be tempted to compromise your morals. That's called being a tease, or worse, you'll actually end up doing the deed and feel disappointed in yourself afterward.

    Once you do decide you're ready for the prospect of marriage and start dating, you still need to be careful and still avoid doing a lot of touching or displaying unnecessary amounts of affection. The bible doesn't say that you're exempt once you begin dating or once you're engaged, MARRIAGE is the status at which you're free to do what you want with a guy. It'll be hard because it's totally natural to be sexually attracted to guys but just keep in mind your morals and dont bend them for anything.

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What Guys Said 4

  • First of all, not before you physically become an adult. (The Bible doesn't use numbers, but I feel it would be best to wait at least until 18 or 21.)

    Secondly, never before marriage, and never with anyone aside from him.

    Aside from that, as long as both of you want to do it and it's legal, it should be fine.

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  • Cincinnati is too far from Chicago.

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  • Making demonic sacrifices to please God.

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  • No threesome, gangbang, bisexuallity, swingers, them sort of activities

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What Girls Said 2

  • Regarding what?

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  • anything more than kissing.

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