It? seriously? im going to sidestep here because i can only imagine the kind of flak you are going to get for calling a woman an "it"... you are going to get firebombed bro. oh and heads up, getting a girlfriend is not half the battle... not even close.
number one a girlfriend is not an it she is the other half of you and you need to take care of her as she will take care of you. and if you cannot be loving understanding and treat her with respect you should not have one to begin with