For me, personally, it's if the guy can't carry a conversation or just won't talk. It's the most awkward thing ever having to force for things to say. I usually just want to end the date early if that happens. What's yours?
When he literally acts like a douche and somehow thinks that it's sexy.
I mean bragging about how much money he makes, how he's this super accomplished guy, looks down on other people (like the waiter serving us), brags about his car, acts like overspending is absolutely nothing. I get it, you work hard and have money, cool, but you don't need to act conceded as shit about it.
The next thing would be the guys who literally sit there the whole date and bitch about women, and how they can't seem to get a woman to call them afterwards and how big of bitches other women are.
I am groaning and cringing just thinking about it.
To me it's a self centered mentality which can mean traits like acting rude or having little interest in listening about the person. They want to talk and change the conversation topic fairly frequently with little input from the other person 😪
I can't stand when they're super shy or quiet, rude to waiters or other staff, seem disinterested (looking around, on their phone a lot), smell bad or appear to the date looking sloppy just in general.
id have to agree with you, thats really frustrating when they can't carry a convo. Some other things are if theyre rude to other people, really serious and/or dont take the initiative (kiss at the end, grab my hand, etc).
If the guy lights up a cigarette. Or if he expects me to do all the talking. Some guys give yes/no responses that make it difficult to continue the conversation. Elaborate a bit, give me something to work with.