I have always been thinking how would I react if one day I wake up and had none of them (zits, cysts etc). How should I treat girls I already know and will meet towards forming a relationship.
If I lose my acne and the female friends start touching my skin more frequently. Is that a sign that she's a bad friend for ME? Should I feel bad because now they touch because I have no acne on me?
I know it's hard to touch someone's "acne-ish" skin area. Even for me I'm not that 100% comfortable touching a girl with acne but am 100% touching myself even though is the same skin problem. So sometimes I "get it". At least I know that I'm way more comfortable touching a girl with acne than any other guy that never had severe acne but still... it's not that easy to touch it.
What if my female friend start liking me so much with my new good skin that they want a relationship with me. Should I forgive them and go out with her? If I invited the girl before I wouldn't go out with her but what if I never was interested in the girl during acne and now she invites me because of my good skin?
I know that almost every girl is nice to me because they see me with this skin condition but they wouldn't ever think that it's possible to have a relationship and sex with someone with my type of problem. I don't want to be treated good only because I have acne and be excluded from a possible relationship.
What if I have my skin cleared and I met this girl and she mentions she hates acne and would never date a guy with it. Should I never go out with her because of that simple detail even though I wouldn't ever get acne but the fact that I had it makes me judge her and not go out with her?
I don't want to have sex or a relationship right now. I just want the confirmation that there is someone that can accomplish those 2 things while me having acne and I am failing terribly and my acne might go away before proving this so this is why I'm asking.
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Jesus Christ, man, you're overthinking this to the EXTREME!
Look, whether you like it or not, physical attraction is a thing, and physical attributes are something that every healthy human being on this planet takes notice of. There's nothing wrong with that, 'cause it's a natural thing to observe.
With that said, if you had the Rocky Mountains on your face and got rid of them and now you look like a stud, then damn, bro, CAPITALIZE ON IT! You've got these girls telling you how good you look now that you've learned to manage your skin issue, and I honestly don't know why any reasonable guy would see that as a bad thing!0