I get slightly nervous around them and I'm not able to make a good impression.
Tired of being single for this stupid ass reason of not being confident. What can I do?
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I agree with La femme fatale, you lack the experience. Are you that shy around girls that you like, you can't even talk to them? If so, you probably will not get very far and might even have to settle for a girl that your not attracted to. If there are other women like me, then they will not take you by the hand and initiate for you so that you dont have to. When I was a lot younger at secondary school, I had crushes an couldn't talk to any of them because I was such a nervous wreck. None of them took me by the hand. That's when I had to snap out of it and overcome my shyness. So I started talking to other guys, even guys I wasn't really attracted to. So when I developed more crushes I would talk to those guys and get to know them a little better first, only to discover that they had girlfriends. I'd definitely advise, doing some homework on them before telling them how you feel or asking them out. Its a foolproof way of avoiding rejection.1