She can drink of course (only an extremely boring person doesn't touch alcohol) as long as she doesn't overdo it. I'd prefer she didn't smoke, it stinks and no good can come of it. And I'd prefer if she was up for trying other drugs (this is quite important actually, it shows she's not a boring, brainwashed health freak) though again, without overdoing it
Drinking - Socially/rarely is alright. Regularly? No.
Smoking- So long as they don't smoke in the apt/house/car; I'm okay with it. Been with a smoker before tbh. Cigarettes and cigars. Just spray yourself down with cologne, do not DOUSE yourself in it, just spray.
Weed, in edible form is the only kind I tolerate. The smell (YES, IK how this sounds) makes me feel sick.
If she smoked, i just downright wouldn't date her. Nicotine, Marijuana, Crack - nothing.
Drinking is a different story. I don't want a tipsy bimbo, who goes out to bars and clubs to get hammered and potentially cheat on me. But I don't drink much at all, and even I love a nice glass of wine every now and then. So that's fine.
drugs and drinking are fine, but a regular smoker probably not
I would rather for their own health sake not to do any of that, but if it had to be anyone of them all I would rather it be smoking because smoking won't destroy someone as fast as drinking or drugs will.
If it's weed that's okay if cigarettes that's a instant no go. Drinking idc but just not all the time
I wouldn't "prefer" him to do it, but I don't mind it at all, I drink and smoke at times, and even do some other drugs too sometimes, so if my SO is like me I don't mind and if he doesn't and doesn't mind me drinking, smoking, and etc. then it's cool
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