So I've been pondering the idea of getting a vasectomy for years now. I don't want children and I'm going into grad school so I want to prevent all obstacles i. e. Children from getting in the way. I've recently started seeing this woman and she is absolutely fantastic, but i dont know how she'll react if I tell her about my desire to have a vasectomy.
- Break up with him, since he does not want childre29% (2)
- Accept it and eventually enjoy "protection less" intercourse29% (2)
- Convince him otherwise42% (3)
- Become upset and end the relationship.0% (0)
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I chose "convince him otherwise" cuz it's the closest.. but at the end of the day it's your body. I personally THINK I want to have kids, so I would like the option to do so if I choose. Children are one of those unfortunate dealbreakers, eventually you either want them or you don't and if you're not aligned with your partner then there's not much you can do because I don't believe children should be something that is compromised on. I said convince otherwise, not to try and convince you to have kids, but just to hold off until you're really sure.0