I mean, seriously. I have hobbies and do things on my own like going to the gym everyday, going to coffee shops, libraries, book stores... but, besides the gym, no where I go are any men. And the guys on here have indicated already on several Takes and questions that the gym is not a place to meet a guy. So where are they all at? I don't have a problem approaching one, but it would be nice to have one to actually, you know, APPROACH.
PS, I tried the online dating thing. People just want hook ups and never anything serious, so no, not going back to that.
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To many guys ruin online dating buy spam messaging and everyone has too much choice so all go for the same groups. I tried OKcupid wanting something serious I've had 10 visits 6 likes and one match with a girl witch as a guy I think is actually quite good as a girl that would be really low though.
I messaged and chatted with her briefly she was very non committal and the conversation wasn't good so it just died.
I'm part of a local makers group about 10 regulars and various people who occasionally turn up all men mostly taken but 2 of the regulars me and another guy my age are single groups with a common interest are good for meeting people we all go primarily to talk about what we're working on with each other and share knowledge.
I tried spinning to meet women but it's just not nearly as social to be fair I only went 5 or 6 times so far stopped going to that for about a month while I was particularly busy I may go back and I guess I didn't really hang around much after since I was sweaty.0