I seem to need to know her, as a person, before I really feel anything emotional, loving. Sexual, yeah, everyone has a 'first glance' thing, and feels the sexual 'rush'. But 'Love' for me, is about knowing her, and taking some time, being with her, understanding, and sharing things together.
Wow... reading all these girls responses of being with a guy they didn't even find physically attractive and only found them more attractive because of personality I hope I never end up being one of those guys. I'd feel like absolute shit if I found that my girlfriend felt that way about me.
I wouldn't call that not being physically attracted. All the girls I've crushed on were just 'meh' at first.
Yes. When I first met my guy friend I thought he looked really nerdy and unappealing but as we became friends I realized he had gorgeous eyes and the cutest smile and even though he wasn't muscular I didn't care and I fell in love with him because of his personality. But I'm someone who tends to look at personality more than looks so..,
I thought my ex was decent looking at first... no big deal. He turned into the man I have found most attractive in my whole life. I don't think I have ever been so smitten with anyone. It was the biggest heartbreak I ever had to face. So yes, people's personalities and how compatible you are can make someone become the most beautiful person you've ever seen.
Happens a lot because I have social anxiety. I can't just go for looks alone. That being said, I have fallen for good looks too. I'd be lying if I said I didn't. However, for me to really like someone, I have to be able to have a conversation with them. It doesn't matter what he looks like if I can't talk to him. It's pointless. Usually for me too, I get very intimidated by good looks. I'm usually more comfortable talking to someone average or below. The last guy I really liked was someone I never expected to like because I hate long hair on guys and smokers. He smoked and had long hair and i really liked him.
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