So yeah, the question is self explanatory. I am not bad looking, but I am socially awkward and my experience with dating has been minimal because I don't know how to approach women, and am too nervous.
Socially awkward women have no issues, since they still get approached by men. But since we men need to do the approaching, it's like those of us who are either shy or have trouble interacting socially, are kinda left behind. Also, my race is a factor as well (I do not wish to elaborate, but lets just say men of my race are not usually preferred by women of ANY race).
Any solutions? I'm almost 30, and although I'm not 'desperate' to date, I do occasionally feel lonely.
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Maybe you are setting the bar too high for yourself. If you know you are socially awkward and approaching is an issue, its usually just fear of intention. Clear your mind, start low. You don't have to date every woman you see, sometimes just make a friend. It is way easier to approach when you aren't scheming some plot in the back of your head.
start by making a friend who you can get comfortable with and before you know it, you will realize they are just human too and possibly relax... repeat as many times as needed.0
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