I've met a lot of people that are very shallow. I noticed too that more people now are single or haven't found someone seriously until their late twenties or thirties. I mean, I'm a bit shallow too but I'd still keep an open mind to whoever I might come across. What do you think? Are people extremely too picky these days now?
They do focus on the exterior in the BEGINNING. But... what other options are there? You can't just grab someone out of the vrowd completely randomly and see if their personality suites you - there surely has to be some kind of an attractive component about them physically for you - that's how you narrow down who you'll ask out out of all those people on the street just walking, minding their own business.
Picky and shallow is different. Am I picky? Hell yeah. Am I shallow? Not at all.
I'm picky because I don't want to be with a girl that isn't what I want. I want someone who I can think of spending the rest of my life with and having kids with them. I don't want dummy to be my wife and mother of kids, just like I don't want a super intelligent but cold one.
I'm a perfectionist. I'm hard on myself, so I can't simply be with a girl that isn't gonna ne perfect for me.