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If your experience is it's "most" women, then it's either your approach style, the women you're approaching or both. Frankly, many black women are mean when you approach them, so I don't know if you're approaching black women or what. But black women get sick of the way black men approach because black men tend to be very aggressive and act as if you're supposed to be interested just because they like you and/or don't know when to back off once they approach, so black women learn to be bishes to keep men from approaching in the first place or to make men go away faster if they do approach.
As for approach style, it could be you're doing as I described in black men, or it could be that women are not attracted to you physically and, like I said about black women, are being mean to make you go away faster. I am never mean to guys, but I do try to look mean or uninterested so guys won't approach in the first place. Some things guys do that make me want to act mean are talk about sex too early or compliment some aspect of my body (don't compliment booty and breasts), or they kind of "interview" me to see if I have some quality they want as if only his interest matters. When you approach women, you need to ask about THEM and try to get to know them and make them feel comfortable--you don't ask if they can cook or if they do all this other stuff that would make you happy. You haven't given her any reason to be interested in you yet.
**The main thing I see guys do wrong when they approach is not try to get to know the woman, so if you're not trying to do that then you're messing up--could be why they're being mean.0