She is younger than me and is also white and loves to date black men. I have never been attracted to black men. She thinks I need to try it. I absolutely dont have the need to do that. I like white men and that is it. Just like I am attracted to tall men and not short men. I dont want to date a trucker... their schedules are crazy. I dont want to date a newly divorced man. I dont want to date a man who has young children. Why can't I have a preference?
Most Helpful Guy
Everyone has their own preferences. There's races I'm generally not attracted to as well. Don't worry about someone saying you're racist, people say your racist for anything therefore, it's meaningless. Date who you want and if your friend doesn't like it, there's 3.6 billion other women to be friends with.1
Most Helpful Girl
Honey, u are absolutely 100% correct.
U are not racist, you just have a preference. Im just like you, im mostly attrected to white men, but im not racist, i have many black friends. Its the axact same thing as saying "i like blue eyes" or "i like tall guys" Your friend shouldn't call u a racist, if anything u can call her racist for not dating white men. Lol
But if ur not physically attracted to them, ur not physically attracted to them, the relationship would crumble. Like who u like boo, its ur right.2