So I'm a sophomore in college and I've never had a serious relationship... I don't have any friends. My family has basically abandoned me. I'm just alone. I suffer from severe depression and have for years, and i suffer from social anxiety. I'm honestly pathetically medicated and my doctor refues to try anything new. I just got out of honestly a very petty relationship with a girl i met off of tinder and I'm back to feeling shitty and laying in bed all day. I want to meet a woman, but honestly I don't like the choices of where I could meet a woman. I could try at the college, but college girls are so damn immature and annoying or they're taken. Any park is out because there are none around here. I want to make friends, but I find men to be so ignorant and annoying that I refuse to deal with them. Clubs are out because my college has really pathetic club options. My college doesn't hold hardly any events. So I'm just out of luck i guess. Honestly right now I'm fighting the urge to find a bridge. Nothing really seems worth it anymore. And I'm not going back to therapy...
Most Helpful Girl
I suffer from anxiety too , 3 years ago i start having panic attacs when im alone in public.
If you want my advice is
1 thing you can do is throw away the medication , i did a 6 mouth treatment with antidepressive medication and its a shit , it dont works , the medication just give me headaches and make me feel weak.
The medication for depression is the biggest lie in history , i even talk with a doctor and nurse about that and she say , this medications just addict your body , they dont will solve the problem. They dont work.
dont exist a medication that remove your depression. You want to know what i did to feel better?
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Most Helpful Guy
From the top of a lot experience, I offer you some advice.
1) Don't start overnighting and getting out of the bed at midday or later. Don't ever.
2) Consider that depression is a battle a part of your brain has started against the rest of your brain. Rein in the treasonous part, with no hesitation.
It's about willing for it deeply, not pharmaceutical drugs: these only delay the problems.
3) Why did your family turn its back on you? My apologies if the question is intrusive.
4) From what you wrote, I think books can be your first good friends.
If you do well with 1) and 2) the rest will come.
All you need to find a woman mate is not to be shy. But that can come only after 1) and 2). First you feel sound and well, then you make the others feel well with you.0
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