I have been really messy. How do I get myself out of this?
So I am dating multiple guys at the same time “no. I am not having sex with any of them” that would be crazy. There are eight guys right now ( + three guys, but they has stayed in the background *one of them is my ex boyfriend that is trying to get back with me*). I have been on a date with at least four of them and all the guys have asked me on a date again. Which is crazy. I hate saying no and love to give them all a chance even if I am not seeing a future with some of those guys but would love to be a friend to them. I don’t know what I am doing anyone and need to have some control over this situation now cause it is taking over my own time with friends, family and myself. I am only dating for fun. I am not looking for a boyfriend at all. What should I do?
One of the guys I do really like and get on with so well. It is scary but I think he only want me for one thing. I would love him as a friend (maybe future boyfriend?)…
Should I ask the guys for what their intentions are?
Most Helpful Guy
well if you dont want a boyfriend than why the hell are you dating them? but if you want one you see a future with and really want as a boyfriend than go for him
but all in all you need to decide on what you really want, guys are not going to decide that for you, no matter how many you date.1
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Most Helpful Girl
... I am only dating for fun.
So Continue your Flow with each Joe here, dear. Just Schedule out your 'Taking over my own time' so you can make the 'Time' for Everyone. It's not that Hard to Multitask each Man at Hand or anyone Else on your List.
I commend you for going Slow with each Joe. It appears They are Not in any hurry to Settle down, just to Date and not find a Mate any time too soon, so go with the Flow.
Don't Over think anything. You will Begin this Beguine of Getting Muddled brain and it will become a Real Drain for you. If there is any One of them who is Only after 'One thing,' then Forget him and Narrow it down who is the Best from the Rest.
No, Silence is the Golden Goose in 'Should I ask the guys for what their intentions are' or you will End up an "Old Maid" to Sort of Speak when they Hurry and Scurry back into the Murky waters from which they Came out of from getting Cold Duck feet at the thoughts of What your Statement could mean in Regards to Possibly... Being Hooked at the Hip.
BTW: Do not tell any of them about the Other.
Good luck. xx1