A guy regularly comes in to my work and we often talk.
He appears to be a really confident, interesting and intelligent guy with a great body, handsome face and an amazing smile.
He asked me to have coffee with him and I told him that I'd think about it. I didn't say yes to him because there's one thing that makes me unsure about saying yes to him. He's a redhead.
His hair isn't too red. It has a fair amount of blonde in it. Like many women, red hair or any variation of it on a guy tends to result in a guy being an instant no from me. It's just not attractive on guys and is actually repulsive in my opinion.
I think that he would be a good guy to get to know but I can't seem to get past the fact that he's a redhead.
What should I do?
Have any of you girls ever been in the same position where you have to deal with and make a decision about a red haired guy?
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I think you already said no... if you own't (maybe) go for coffee, he probably got the message and you an bck it up if need be with a no.
I have the same challenge with red heads. it isn't the color, it is the personality that I've associated with them so often. It may not be fair at all, but I've had too many bad experiences. I lost a really good girl due to her changing her blondish hair to red and making a bad call... But guys usually don't change hair color like that.
You could just go for coffee with him and explore more of why you feel this way and if your feelings change. Its all just learning.0