I've recently started seeing/dating this friend of mine, but we are not official yet. He is a shy guy and is probably not very experienced. He seems very into me, but I wish he would feel more comfortable touching me in general, like laying his hand on my thigh at a restaurant, touching the small of my back when walking me somewhere, grabbing my butt and thighs when making out, etc. How do I get him to do this? I've already tried moving his hand when we're kissing and saying "hmmm I like this" when he does it right, but he still doesn't seem nearly as comfortable as other guys I've been with. I'm 20 and he's 21.
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It sounds like he is just shy nervous and inexperienced. He might not have broken through the mental touch barrier yet. a lot of guys are not really touchy because were told so often to keep our hands to ourselves. Try touching him more, leaving your hands on him in places that it is acceptable to be touched and keep encouraging him. He will get there with encouragement. Keep at him he sounds like a keeper. I wish you two luck.1