I prefer to talk on the phone or facemail to face interactions. But when I text a guy that I like I enjoy talking to him and I get excited talking to him. I like a guy now and he told me that he likes me too. The guy I like now use to respond to my texts pretty fast but lately I notice he doesn't respond as fast. I asked him a couple times if I was bothering him and he said he's just a bad texter and he's been busy. A couple times I felt he was ignoring me because he wasn't responding as fast as I would like. A couple times he responded days later. Should I stop texting him first and start letting him reach out to me?
Can texting too much push a guy away if so how do you draw him to you?
What Guys Said 1
Don't apologize for texting a lot and don't overthink a delayed response. Some people, myself included, don't like to talk just to talk. Create meaning in your conversations. Educate yourself on his interests and ask about them. He will reiterate by discussing your interests1
What Girls Said 1
I think you need to let him reach out to you, some guys might think your pressuring them honestly. But just think if a guy was overly texting you a nd you were busy or looked and forgot. Things happen. But it could be worse and he might be into someone else too. You just need to play it by ear and stay cool. He knows you like him but it's his turn to step forward to you a little. It can't be you making all the moves1
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