To start off to tell you I'm best friends with this girl I like she knows I like her and it got really awkward when I told her and she kept bringing it up that she didn't like me like that. But I stay the night at her house everyday and were together all the time we do everything together go out to eat etc. Yesterday she mentioned that it would be a good idea for a guy to take her on a date on a picnic and the it came across that she was saying I should ask her but I don't want to ruin our friendship and she flirts with me all the time. But she has a kind of flirty personality so it's really hard to tell please somebody help
Most Helpful Girl
If she actually told you that she doesn't like you in a romantic way then I have no idea why you'd think she'd want to be MORE than friends. When you like someone you don't tell them: "I don't like you in that way"...0
Most Helpful Guy
You can't get something/someone you want without risking anything, in this case, it's your friendship with the girl. You can never succeed in getting the girl if you aren't willing to risk rejection/ ruining the friendship.
I've been there. Going out with her as a friend while you actually like her romantically is the worst thing you can do. You either take her out on a date, or you don't. Make it clear, let her know. If she still says she didn't like you like that, you must learn to let her go and move on. A "friendship" with her will never work, you're just bullshitting yourself until you eventually realize that it will go nowhere.0