so i was dating that girl, we dated a few times, no kissing or nothing happened between us, i felt she was attracted to me and i was attracted to her, we had some little misunderstandings though, regarding stupid stuff, and then i felt her back off, she doesn't pursue me anymore, she doesn't text me, her replies to my texts got shorter and shorter... you got the point.
so it's been one week we didn't talk to each other, and she traveled outside the country for work. do you think i should contact her , like send her a little text saying: "hey, how you been" or anything like that, or do you think i should just let her come to me, and give her space to decide whether she wants to come back or not?
Most Helpful Girl
You have every right to continue contacting her because if she is trying to discontinue talking to you, she should tell you. It is BS and immature to just disappear on someone. I would just ask her about it. Tell her you feel like maybe she changed her mind about continuing to see you if so just let you know. It might suck if she says she is no longer interested but you could wonder about this for 2 to 3 more weeks and then wonder what happened for even longer (trust me, that is what I am going through, it stinks!) That way you get an answer and can move on.0
Most Helpful Guy
Ask her how the trip was. If she doesn't respond, that's the last text you ever send her.5