I've been in this weird mood for few days, kinda depressed. I am working in a huge, successful company and I love my job there and I also recently got a solo offer for a great project from this one amazing dude that I like (but he is already seeing someone). This project is amazing and it can get me great opportunities... and I should be happy as fuck! It's everything I wanted. I also already have a steady position at my current job and a sweet salary. I have few amazing friends, a cosy home and happy parents. But I feel so damn down. :( I feel like nothing matters without love. I am very emotional and being in love motivates me. I've been single for 2 years, I just don't have luck in dating. And I can't get this guy out of my head (the one that I'm gonna work on a project with). It's making me double sad that he is not interested in me, even though he is just casually dating this girl. I dunno, I guess I just needed to vent. Anyone gets me?
Most Helpful Guy
Love? that's just a figment of your Disney imagination, something to pine for that does not exist because realty and truth (everyone dies alone) is too much to face for most people.
Romantic love has been invented to soften the blow of reality for the masses. You can't get that guy off your mind because you can't have him... but if you could have him, you'd b finding something to be unhappy about concerning him.. and if he was purrfect... you'd say it was too good to be true... or something was missing... or the spark was gone.
You are never happy!0
Most Helpful Girl
I get you. I am younger than you though. I have an amazing life and of course there are problems, but this one guy that was my first crush, my best friend, the guy I can rely on for everything and anything. I told him I loved him and he said he loved me too. But then he says he doesn't want anything romantic (we tried before and it ended horribly.) I honestly I'm so sad, achy, I have a lump in my throat, I can't stop thinking about him and it's making me sad. I cry every night because of him. I don't know what to do. I think our best bet is to move on. And come on with everything that you have I think you're better off without him and I know that love motivates you so that when you do find someone that actually appreciates you'll do better than now. Good luck0