I have been meeting the birds lately. The ones that like to dub, don't know what she wants, the misleaders, and the confused. It's girls such as these that I can't seem to find a relationship with. Being single was fun and all not attachments and regulations. But I've never had a girlfriend. I would like some experience under my belt before I finally settle down. If I do at this point which I'm losing hope for that too. I'm finding really heard to meet a decent girl who actually likes me. Whether it be online or in person. They're just nowhere to be seen. I'm done attracting the birds. How can I attract the nice girls.
Is anyone feeling the same? Like there is no hope for love these days?
Most Helpful Girl
I understand were your coming from andi feel this way a lot as well. It seems like you want something deep beyond sexual and all you get is the opposite which can make you upset or even make you have doubts in this world. I can tell you to stay positive even wheb you do have these doubts. We're you meeting some of these girls?1
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Most Helpful Guy
If you really want to quit, then you'll quit and not care anymore.
As someone once had said "Happiness comes from within. You can't rely on someone else to make you happy."
When you aren't happy it will be difficult to create and maintain the attraction in the relationship anyway.
I personally don't think "love" is love, but only the illusion and delusion as a result of hormones in our bodies. It's primary and only purpose is to ensure any species and biological beings to desire to procreate and reproduce otherwise they would eventually become extinct. So all those feelings and desires we feel such as physical attraction and lust or crushes, are a result of those hormones, but then eventually people either just settle down and all those feelings slowly go away, or they never really settle.
Focus on what you have control over, such as self improvement on various areas that could make you a more desired and potential mate for a girl to desire to date and get to know you. But in the end, there are no guarantees that relationships will ever happen or that they would last forever and that is the reality of it. Well you only live once, why not just make the most of it and not dwell on the unhappy feelings and thoughts, and just go out there and have as much fun and adventures as possible?0