This friend of mine, who I like a lot, doesn't ever want to hang out outside of school. She's nice, touches me, never pulls the "you're such a good friend" card. She seems genuinely intersted in my life when I do see her. She used to text me first but now she hasn't initiated contact in a month (summer break from school). Should I stop hoping and accept it'll never happen? Or keep aimlessly texting her in hopes she'll go hang out?
Most Helpful Girl
Does she respond to your texts? If so, I'd just straight up ask her out on a date instead of pulling a wishy washy "do you wanna hang out?" Thing.
When you see her at school, ask if she has plans do break or something & eventually say something like "before you go on vacation (or whatever she's doing during break) do you want to go out on a *date* with me" and you'll get your answer. You never know until you try.
If she's not responding and not talking to you at school... I'd move on. You want someone who wants to give you as much attention as you give them.1
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Most Helpful Guy
Man let me tell you something, i had a very similar situation, thebonly difference is that she was txting me yet she would always say she's busy to hang out so i suggest you do one thing. First of all, screw this in your head or at least set your mind to it " she's not for me so im just gonna be friends with her" basically just expect the worse. Now that you got that out of thr way be friendly to her and stop txting her. Wait till she txts you, i know its hard to hold it in cause you just want to talk to her but dont talk to her through msgs wait for her to text you. This means that you're not as important to her or she just knows she has you there and she's enjoying the attention. Once you have done these things, if she doesn't message you at all but only talks at school then this means she's not interested if she asks you anything about msgin her or how you are different or anything then she's interested at that point you say you'll change to the way you were before if you guys hang out. Just remember if she makes time to see you or to message you then she's interested if she doesn't then unfortunately you have to move on. Good luck!0