I'm 19 and am about to start my second year in college. in my life, guys have been interested in me, but I have never felt an emotional attachment to any of them. I could just not visualize us together, so I remained single. where I live, there aren't many attractive guys. And since I have to marry within my religion , its quite hard to find an attrwvtive guy who fits that description. I have no guy in my life that I would want to start a family or relationship with. I would rather just keep them as friends. Since I do wanna get married soon, I want to find the right guy and marry the one I have feelings for prior to marriage. If I don't find a guy by about 24, I will have to have an arranged marriage with a guy who i don't know at all and will just know for a couple of weeks before marriage. I don't want that. Plus, the guy will be chosen by my mom and dad, which find guys attractive who are totally not my type. I like edgy, dominant, sexy, and "push me against a wall and do what you want with me" kind of guys with a bit of tenderness ( so basically a guy who's a family guy but knows when to be bad only for me 💦💦). They like guys who look like complete pussies and pansies and are completely dorky looking. What do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
well whatever your religion is i suggest not be a part of it and refuse an arranged marriage, because its not your parents or anyone elses business who you decide to choose in life,
plus with all your "self" pride which is very unattractive to guys, i dont think a guy would love you, unless he's a player out to use you. because the guys you seem to be into are the violent player types.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Give it time. You're only 19 LOL and even if you don't marry before 24 that's fine. Plenty of people get married late nowadays (like mid to late 30s) cause theyre all too busy focusing on careers and stuff of that sort. You wouldn't wanna settle for someone you don't love now would you? My advice is when you meet a guy who seems like he would be your type don't be afraid to approach him. You could miss an opportunity to get to know him if you just wait. Good luck!1