I met this girl last year and she's wonderful! We get along great, and everything is going smooth. About two months ago I asked her if she would be my one, she kinda freaked out telling me that she doesn't know if she could do the long distance since she's leaving town to do her PHD, and that she wanted to go with the flow. This is after she kissed me, so I held her hand and told her that "I understand and I know you got a lot on your plate and I don't want to put any pressure on you. I really like you and your amazing" she replies "I don't want anything to change between us or think of me differently" I told her "no way, I still feel the same way"... After that day she started to call me 3 to 5 times day, so in my head I'm like cool things are getting better. So about a month ago we met up for coffee and she started telling me I'm glad things are working out between us. Later that day she came over and we hung out and never stopped talking. I walked her to her car and she grabbed my arm, and we kissed. The next day she was complaining about a headache and checked on her later that day to see if she was okay. The next day I texted her a good morning text and didn't get a reply so before passing out I sent her another text telling her I hope your feeling better, and hope you have a great night. Got no response. Waited til the afternoon and decided to call and check up on her, and she never answered or returned my phone call. So I waited a couple more day and sent her a text asking if she was still up for movie night. Her reply was "hey sorry, cant" so I replied saying "no worries, next time and hope you have a great day" she said "you too!" So I decided to back off and gave her space.. well its been a little over a month now, and not knowing is getting a little frustrating, but I don't want to come off as needy or anything like that. I just don't want to push her away. I really like her! So is this a ignore test?
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its not a test, she's either got something going on or she's not interested in you anymore and has found someone else1