I always receive comments about my good looks. People are always wondering why I have never had a girlfriend and some are even starting to question if I'm gay. The problem is every time I put myself out there for a woman, even when she is obviously interested, she pushes away once she starts to get to know me. I was never popular growing up and was bullied a lot so I did what I could to change who I was and become the attractive young man I am now. Part of it took me accepting my personality and who I am no matter how nerdy I was because I figured at this adult age, no one cares, but it seems like I was wrong. I get that I'm awkward quite often, but I've seen men 10 times more awkward than me in relationships that lasted years upon years. I'm not a virgin, but the majority of the times I have slept with a woman alcohol was involved and they completely pushed me away once they got to know when we were sober. It's like drunk me knows all the right moves and sober me is completely clueless. I can't be that dull right? I'm outdoors constantly, super artistic, hardworking, and always looking to have a good time. Yes I don't have a lot of money but neither do most college students. I have had some horrible and tragic things happen to me in the past however. Could those things be what's pushing them away? Rejection has always hurt a lot for me so I'm very hesitant opening my heart to someone until, especially now when I don't go for it until I know my chances are good. Every woman I throw myself out there for, I would give them the world if I could, but I'm always rejected usually within the first week and they're never straight forward about it either. So I'm just wondering what's the issue here and what do I need to work on?
I'm a good looking guy. Women often come on to me but once they start to see who I am, on the inside, they push away. Why?
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