I've been on four dates with this guy and I like him a lot. We kind of had a bad day yesterday and I texted him like three times in a span of 8hrs without a response. He did finally get back to me and said that he was sick and had been sleeping all day. I know I messed up but I'm hoping it's not unsalvageable?
If a new girl comes off as needy one day... but had otherwise been fine would that be enough to scare you away? I'm planning on just backing off completely and not texting/calling unless he does first but I have a lot of anxiety over it right now so I'm wondering what you guys think?
Most Helpful Guy
After just four dates, it tends to kind of raise all kinds of red flags.
I mean you're still being all needy even when you aren't sending text with all this anxiety you have over how he's going to react. Needy isn't just about your outward behavior, it's ultimately about your emotional state.
I think probably if you want to try to do some damage control, best way is to try to come off as not being needy in the slightest -- be as easy-going and chill as you can be. Don't even try to apologize for needy -- that comes off as needy.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Why the heck would you text him 3 times without a response?><0