this guy I was dating suddenly stopped the contact. He won't message but would reply back if I messaged him. now he had lent me a book which I thought maybe I return to him. So I asked him when did he want to take the book or if he felt awkward then i will hand over his book to one of the mutual friends. instead he said "hey how are you i was thinking to message you but was really busy. and come on lets meet soon." I am sure, not to date him again but I was just curious as to what this is? Whats with this guy?
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He is not that serious about talking. Im dealing with a guy like that right now. They seem interested at times and other times not so much and its confussing bc they are not really showing consistency and consideration and definetly not pursuing. Why, right? Confussed...
Well, its simply. Guys like this aren't looking for nothing serious with us. Just talking and could care less if they see us or hear from us or not. They just want to be single and not taking nothin serious. So they just say things but not all the way serious about it unless we pursue them. Dont do that. A man should pursue us.
So yea, dont take him serious at all. I learned to treat them they way they are treating you. Dont text or call him no more. if he says something to you about hooking up soon or whatever, just be like ok. And he should be the one that makes that happen by actual planning that outing. Dont ask or remind him bc if he really wants to see you, he will make it happen.1
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