Sometimes I wonder if I'm too available? Like I talk on phone to her twice a day and text nearly all day long. We both naturally flow there's not really any awkward silences, we make each other laugh, similar interests bla bla but I wonder if I should just back off a bit, do my own thing, tell her I'm not available to talk when she does etc. I have phases where I kinda just want some time to myself but, if I like her & wanna take things further I'm supposed to want to talk to her as much as possible aren't I?
But on flip side I wonder if that would come across like I'm not putting any or as much effort in?
What do you think?
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If you need some time for yourself you should male that time for yourself. You are basically giving up your life to be with her which is not really great. You should make her feel special when you are spending time with her but you shouldn't neglect your own life. In the end she should be a part of your life not your whole life. This would come across as needy at some point eventually.0