It's a well known fact that unless a man starts out with romantic intent towards a woman, he'll end up in the dreaded friend zone because apparently, women believe that men start out as friends with the ulterior motive of eventually getting into their pants. This is obviously a lie, because these women just aren't physically attracted to the men.
But what if the man did not have any ulterior motives, but as he got to know her better, he liked her personality and developed feelings for her? Is he still doomed to remain in the friend zone just because he actually got to know her before falling for her?
Most Helpful Girl
Nahhhhhhhh I knew of a girl who said that this one guy was like a brother to her... then eventually (half a year later) they started dating and having sex. He cheated on his girlfriend to be with her (her being the girl who said that he was "like a brother to her".) It's been 2 years and I think they're still boyfriend and girlfriend.0
Most Helpful Guy
Dude if you go for it and go about it the right way and she likes you back you will get the best girlfreind ever. Though it is true that she has to be attracted to you for it to work which is a hit and miss sometimes. The thing to remember is that there is really no actual freindzone in a girls mind. She just does not see you as a potential date. Over the course of a month or two you have to act like a date and get her to consider you as a good one. The important thing to remember is if she offers you sex early on in dating she is testing you don't go for it. It is a trap to see if your just trying to get into her pants. Tell her your not dating her just for that and lightly turn her down. If she trys again then go for it with her. I wish you luck dude.0
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