Hi, had a firend (know wach other for 6 month), I know he liked me, even told to my two girlfriends, that he would call me out if I was single, 2 month ago. At that time I had a boyfriend, but it was all bad an we broke up.
He is shy but was kind to meand managed to get me out with him a few times ( friends didn’t show up, or there were few other occasions where we ended up on a dinner).
2 weeks later, he called me out, but I rejected him a few times. I had a lot of work to do, and honestly I wasn’t sure. I needed some time after my breakup. A month ago we went to a club with our friends, we slowdanced a lot. he even kissed me on my forehead, and hold me from behind for a while, and was rubbing my back during the dance. But than a friends grabbed us to dance with them, and it ended there. We never talked about this moment between us. But I felt a connection, and I think he felt it too.
After this night he called me out hiking , was very kind, helpful, texted me a lot, even called me occasionally, when I didn;t texted back quick enough. Rememberd things about me…even my number, which is rare these days.
So there were all the signs and he was trying to get to me.
We spent a lot of time together during next 2 weeks. Invited me to a concert in other state, which means a weekend stay (it’s going to be in 3 month) . And also wanted me to join him for a whole weekend at a sports tournament. And when I said I am not going because I didn’t know those people ( his friends even family!), he told me it’s ok, he will introduce me and we can get along just well. I didn't go.
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So I asked him if I can have a question. He smiled at me: Sure.
But I know for sure he was not that drunk and remember everything. He is not the type to get sooo drunk to not remember things. He got a little nervous and told me: “Yeah I was drunk” I smiled at him and said ok :).
He continued: “I shouldn’t have to drink, I do stupid things than.”