I've always been attracted to men 10+ years older than me, guys my age just don't appeal to me. So when I met Dave, 52, it wasn't a surprise that I, 21, was attracted to him. He is funny, charismatic, and he gives off this sexual vibe that I just can't quite explain. We added reach other on Facebook and we message each other now and then, always having very flirty conversations. He's admitted to glancing down my shirt when I stopped at his house once. He's even gone as far as trying to get me to go on an overnight casino trip with him. Dave does know my parents and most of their friends, so that worries me a little. I don't want everyone knowing if i sleep with him, because they'll probably think it's a sugar daddy situation. I'm not sure how to approach Dave and even get this going even though he seems very interested. Any helpful opinions are needed!!!
Well the woman I'm seeing and I have a 19 year age difference, her being 19 and I'm 38. I never expected it to be more than friends but she made the move and started kissing/making out with me. She has long term plans to move away so there's no long term possibility but we both enjoy each other's company as well as the sex. She's the best lover I've had in my entre life.
That's kinda creepy. The technical socially accepted number is, for a man, half your age + 7. So, for a 52 year old, it would be socially acceptable for him to date a 33 year old. A 21 year old is preeeeeeeeeeetty far from there.
As for how to get there, I don't know man. I don't speak Baby Boomer generation.
My best friend and former girlfriend is 27 years younger than me, we only split because she wanted kids, and I have had a vasectomy. She has been suggesting recently that she leave her partner, and bring herself and her two children to be with me! Her father is a year younger than me and we get on fine. I really don't know what to do!
Ok so I say at lest date someone in their early 30s dating a senior citizen is a bit gross. 53 years old? You sure you're not after his life insurance? That's the kind of stereotype you will get. But you should know since you're naive that older guys will manipulate you. From experience dating an older guy who 20 years older than me I don't want to date anyone older than 34. Older guys know the game they played well so they will try to control you. Everything seems good now but you have to know the bad side of dating older guys it comes with manipulation and a whole lot of other things. 52 im assuming he is married and the fact he preyed on you which is exactly what it is should tell you to not doing anything stupid with this guy. I know guys are age are idiots most are. Senior citizen territory is off limits its just down hill from that. And I don't think you be able to handle being called a gold digger and gross. Because having second with a grandpa is gross at 21. Could you imagine night time for him would be 5 and you're at at stage in life where you're discovering who you are if you date too old your life will be limited to meet their needs, and you should live your life without caring for some sick grandpa and stuff
For me there's no "too old" :D If I guy is interesting to me than I don't care about the age. And I know what You mean with people don't understanding... but people are just people they'll always find something to judge. And if only older guys like 10+ appeal to You, their will come a day You'll need to confront Your family and friends about it...
Nah i love older, im 22 but love men in their 30-40's. It turns me on more. Its like letting him dig into an unbitten pie. Makes me feel more feminine. I don't know i just love older guys. Always have even when i was little.