This has been on my mind for a while and I just thought now is the best time to ask. Several men I work with and just know in general tell me good guys exist but I'll never find one and if I did, they would never want me. So why do men say good guys don't exist?
Most Helpful Guy
I am a good guy so thereee1
Most Helpful Girl
They say that because they are talking about themselves as a whole and the kinds of guys they've met and have in their life. There are good guys, but there really isn't a whole lot because of how they have been taught. From what's on the media, to magazines like Cosmopolitan telling sexual lies, etc. I remember my mother had said that my great grandpa had always said 'Men are dogs'. Why? Because sadly that is the mentality males are taught to have instead of having self control and self discipline so that they can learn to properly love a woman. To have respect for her, and to learn when to tell her no to things that will cause problems. So that he can be a leader in marriage and to take on his roll as the head of the household.1